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  • Why Hold Onto Self-Destructive Beliefs?


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    Why Hold Onto Self-Destructive Beliefs?

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    There are various reasons why people hold onto a self-destructive belief. It may simply be an excuse so that they can avoid responsibility or facing something else which is more difficult to overcome. Quite often the belief simply provides the person with a sense of certainty.

    Have you ever heard of people with missing relatives who say they'd rather 'have closure' and know that their loved ones are dead than to not know at all? As silly as it sounds, we'd often prefer the certainty of a bad outcome than to have uncertainty.
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